Today I've learnt the life lesson on accountability with friends, family members and close ones the hard way. The gift of love project has not only taught me how to give of myself more generously to the needy and lost but also, it has taught me the lesson that I must never neglect other areas of my life when I embark on such endeavours. To be honest, I've been spending too much time watching over the project that I've neglected my loved ones at home. I've spent countless hours discussing what the team should do, where the project should head towards and everything else. However, I question my actions of helping and loving the underprivileged because at the end of the day, I can't even get things sorted out at home and with friends...

Although I've learnt it the hard way, I'm glad I did because the project has taught me plenty about how I should approach people, corporate organisations etc. Above all, it has taught me the most important lesson which is to always keep my life in balance and never attempt to work towards something great if there is a huge aspect of my life (loved ones, friends) that has to be sacrificed through the process. Yes, successful people can yak all day about how much they're earning, their positions and statuses and all the hard work they've put into their field of expertise, however, I question whether or not they've found true happiness within themselves and those around them. And I'm truly glad that even though I've learned it the hard way, though all the ego brusing arguments and everything, I'm arising out of this storm stronger and I certainly believe the family has also grown stronger and binded better from this hurdle.



So to all whom this may concern, thank you for teaching me and being there for me, allowing me to learn things hard way, so that I grow to be a better son, brother, friend and person. You've made me see the light.

Do you actually realise what these girls, we so casually label as sluts and prostitutes, truly experience?